Harry (Victor Meldrew.lol) Bainbridge

1939 - 2008
LocationSunderland
Age69 years
Cause of DeathCancer
Date of Birth17/06/1939
Date of Death30/10/2008
Visitors900 since 31/10/2008
Creator

Dad was complaining of pains in his stomach but the stubborn old swine that he was would not go to
the doctors, four days later I went to see him and was shocked at how much weight he had lost. He
was in pain and his skin was a pale yellow.

Our Andrew phoned the doctor to come and when he got there he said there was some thing wrong with
his kidneys and was told he would have to go to hospital.He said after his sunday dinner,(only way
he would go).lol
After a week in hospital me my mam and our Andrew were told to come to the hospital it was friday
the 17th october.We were told to wait in the little room then 40 minutes later my dad came in,then a
couple of minutes after that the Doctor and a nurse came in shut the door and closed the blinds.
My dad was told he had secondary liver cancer and told there was nothing they could do he only had a
couple of months left.
I felt my life drain from my body.
He said he wanted to go home and the Doctor said that it was fine,so we took him home and he loved
been with his family for those last few days. he died peacfully on the 30th of october 2008 less
than 2 weeks after leaving hospital,not 2 months - 2 weeks.
But he was still the joker to the end and I am proud of him for that.

He leaves my mam Doreen of 41 years together and 3 sons me our Andrew and our Derek who turned out
ok through him.
5 granchildren and sisters and brothers nephews and neices.
we all love you dad and you will be missed every day I just wished I told you that I loved you when
you were alive.
Our linda is up there with you and she`ll keep eye on you so don`t be afraid.We will always love you
dad.

p.s can I just say that Sunderland Royal Hospital has to be the worst Hospital in the North East
for care as we were told nothing. My dad said he had nothing to eat for 2 days until I comlained
then he was given soup.If you have any family in there get them out.This hospital is a joke


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⋱♰⋰ Angel Day ⋱♰⋰
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⋱♰⋰ Your Angel Day in Heaven ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ Many tears will fall for you ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ You touched so many loving hearts ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ Theres so many missing you ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ As you now live in paradise ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ Its Heaven up above ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ Stay close to all your loved ones ⋱♰⋰

⋱♰⋰ For its you they miss and love ⋱♰⋰


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LOVE ALWAYS JUDE.XX

copyright ~~ Vicky Deaville 18/10/09

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Jude Swaddle (Friend) 1 week ago

Love you so much.

Hello Dad,
Well its a year ago today when you slipped away and left us,life has not been the same I go over mams and keep expecting to see you sitting there in your chair but thats not to be.
my mam has been looking after the garden and she has it looking lovely she stop buying flowers you would be over the moon if you could see it.
Not a day goes by that I dont think about you and I miss you so much that it hurts.
I love you dad and cant wait until I see you again.xxxx

Paul Muncaster (Son) 1 week ago

I have not turned my back on you,
so there is no need to cry.
I'm watching you from heaven,
just beyond the morning sky.
I've seen you almost fall apart,
when you could barely stand.
I asked the Lord to comfort you,
and watched him take your hand.
He told me you are in more pain,
then I could ever be.
He wiped his eyes and swallowed hard,
then gave your hand to me.
Although you may not feel my touch,
or see me by your side.
I've whispered that I love you,
while I wiped each tear you cried.
So please try not to ache for me,
we'll meet again one day,
beyond the dark and stormy sky,
a Rainbow lights the way

Author Unknown

Love,
Phyllis



24TH OCTOBER 2009

GOOD MORNING..................JUST WANTED TO SAY HELLO AND SEND YOU...........................


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HAVE A LOVELY WEEKEND, LOVE JUDE. X X


Jude Swaddle (Friend) 2 weeks ago



21st October 2009

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Jude Swaddle (Friend) 2 weeks ago

2ND OCTOBER 2009



Wishing You A Good Evening And Thinking of You with Love.....


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Jude Swaddle (Friend) October 2, 2009

19TH SEPTEMBER 2009



★ I picked a star to wish upon,from all the stars above,I closed my eyes and made a wish,to send you lots of love.★

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JUST TO LET YOU KNOW I AM GOING INTO HOSPITAL ON TUESDAY, SO I WILL BE MISSING FOR A FEW DAYS. WOULD YOU PLEASE KEEP DANIEL IN YOUR THOUGHTS AND SEND HIM YOUR LOVE UNTIL I RETURN.WITH LOVE AND THANKS ALWAYS, JUDE. X X


Jude Swaddle (Friend) September 19, 2009



12TH SEPTEMBER 2009

With Love. xXx

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Jude Swaddle (Friend) September 12, 2009

☆ Goodnight Precious Angel ☆

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.....love Jude. x



Jude Swaddle (Friend) September 5, 2009

2ND AUGUST 2009

~~~~~~~~~~~ ♥ Someday ♥ ~~~~~~~~~~~
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰

Someday once more we'll meet you,
No-one knows just when,
We'll meet in a lovely place,
Never to part again.

⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰

Someday once more,we'll meet you
And feel your tender touch,
And tell you again what you've always known,
That we love you very much.

⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰


~~~~~~~~~~ ♥ One Day ♥ ~~~~~~~~~~~


SENDING YOU SUNDAY BLESSINGS, WITH LOVE. X X

⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰

copyright� Ingrid Aspey April 2009

Jude Swaddle (Friend) August 2, 2009
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